This Isn't Love:

How to Unlearn Chaos, Heal Your Past

And Stop Choosing What Hurts

You Keep Calling It Love But It Keeps Leaving You Empty, Anxious, and Alone!

Break toxic love cycles, heal emotional wounds, and rewrite your relationship patterns in 30 days or less (without therapy, begging for closure, or spiraling back into chaos.)

Walk away from the people who keep breaking you and finally mean it this time.

No more “one last text,” no more begging to be seen. Just the peace that comes from choosing you.

Stop mistaking anxiety, obsession, and emotional chaos for love.

You’ll finally see it for what it is and lose the craving for what keeps hurting you.

Heal the wounds that make you chase people who can’t choose you back.

Because it was never about them it was about the part of you that thought pain was love.

Rebuild the version of you who never had to shrink, beg, or perform to be worthy.

You’ll stop abandoning yourself for connection and become someone who only accepts love that feels like safety.

If You Keep Loving People Who Leave You Feeling Empty

And You Don’t Know Why

This Isn’t Love helps you uncover the hidden wounds driving your relationship patterns, so you can stop chasing chaos, start choosing peace, and finally feel like you again.

💔 What You Get And How It Can Help You

This is where the healing starts to stick, where the spiraling stops, the clarity hits, and the comeback begins.

This Isn't Love

How to Unlearn Chaos, Heal Your Past and Stop Choosing What Hurts

Feel seen, understood, and no longer crazy for how much it hurt.

Finally put words to the pain you couldn’t explain.

Understand why you stayed,

why you broke down,

and why it keeps happening.

Start untangling the trauma from what you thought was love.

Feel less alone in your wreckage

and more powerful for surviving it.

Inculuded

This Isn't Love Guided Workbook

Every Exercise, No Fluff, Use the Tools You Need

to Break the Pattern and Rebuild Yourself

Feel like you're actually moving forward instead of just thinking about healing.

Exercises directly from the book for your convenience

Take all the “aha” moments from the book

and turn them into real change.

Start to feel grounded, clear, and in control

even when emotions rise.

Rebuild your relationship with yourself

Inculuded

Triggered Not Toxic

The No-BS Guide to Dealing with Triggers,

Communicating Clearly, And Holding the Damn Line

Feel calm in moments where you used to spiral,

explode, or shut down.

Learn to pause before the emotional avalanche hits.

Understand what your reactions are trying to protect

and respond with grace instead of regret.

Feel more emotionally safe,

even when the conversation gets hard.

Finally stop confusing emotional flashbacks with reality.

Inculuded

Stop Dating Red Flags

Your No-BS Manual for Catching Red Flags in Real Time

Before you Fall for Them

Feel confident walking away from what isn’t love

before it destroys you again.

Trust yourself when something feels off,

Stop mistaking drama for passion and chaos for chemistry.

Break the cycle of chasing people

who can’t love you the way you deserve.

Feel stronger saying no to red flags

and clearer on what “green” really looks like.

Inculuded

I'm Choosing Me Manifesto

The Ultimate Post-Toxic Love Template to Define

What You Deserve and Never Compromise Again

Feel rooted in your worth

even when the world tries to shake it.

Set a new standard for what love must feel like

calm, steady, safe.

Let go of the old identity built on pain, pleasing, and pretending.

Step into a version of you who doesn’t beg, shrink, or settle.

Start every day with the reminder:

I am no longer abandoning myself.

Inculuded

The Brutal Truth of Being in a Relationship That Slowly Destroys You

At first, it looked like love.
The passion, the connection, the moments that felt too good to question. You told yourself this was real—maybe even the one.
But over time, the highs got shorter, and the crashes got deeper. The emotional chaos became your new normal.

You stopped recognizing yourself.

You used to laugh more. Sleep better. Feel confident in your skin. But now you wake up anxious, stomach in knots, checking your phone before your feet hit the ground—waiting for a reply that never comes… or worse, bracing for the one that does.

You overanalyze every word, every look, every silence.
You find yourself apologizing for things that aren’t your fault. Explaining your worth to someone who already decided they didn’t see it.
You’ve convinced yourself that if you just love them harder, they’ll finally stay.

But they don’t.
They leave or they stay just enough to keep you hooked, while slowly dismantling the parts of you that still believed in peace.

And when they finally do walk away for good It doesn’t feel like freedom.

It feels like death.

Not because the relationship was healthy, but because you gave so much of yourself trying to make it work that now… you don’t know who you are without them.
Even after everything they put you through, you miss the version of love you built in your head. The version you hoped they’d grow into.

And in their absence
You're left holding the wreckage.
Not just of the relationship—but of yourself.

You try to distract yourself, to move on, to follow the “self-love” advice that sounds great on paper but doesn’t touch the agony of nights spent questioning your own sanity.
Because this wasn’t just a breakup.
This was self-abandonment disguised as love.

But deep down, you know this:
It was never love if you had to lose yourself to keep it.

And that’s where This Isn’t Love begins

Introducing:

This Isn't Love

How to Unlearn Chaos, Heal Your Past and Stop Choosing What Hurts

What You Get (And Why It Actually Works)

This isn’t another surface-level self-help book or some manipulative “win them back” trick.

This is a complete, step-by-step emotional recovery system built on trauma-informed healing, nervous system rewiring, and brutal self-honesty—designed to help you break the toxic cycles that keep pulling you into relationships that leave you empty.

While most advice tells you to “just move on” or “love yourself more,” This Isn’t Love shows you why you keep ending up in pain, how to unlearn it, and what to do when the grief feels unbearable but you still can’t let go.

Most healing attempts fail because they rely on:

💣 Emotional suppression (“Just stay busy” while your nervous system is in a full-blown meltdown)

🧠 Logical overthinking (“If I can just understand what happened, I’ll feel better”)

💔 Romanticizing the pain (“But we had such a strong connection…”)

😔 Repeating the pattern with a different face (“This new person feels different... until they don’t”)

This Isn’t Love breaks that cycle

A raw, honest deep-dive into the roots of your pain. You’ll finally see why you’ve been stuck, how your past shaped your patterns, and what needs to shift for healing to actually begin.

This isn’t about fixing yourself to be loved.
This is about remembering who the hell you were before you thought love had to hurt.

Rewrite the Story

This Time, With You Fully In It

Imagine waking up without that gut-punch of anxiety...
No more replaying old arguments. No more obsessing over what you did wrong. Just peace, clarity, and a quiet confidence that you’re not who you were when it all fell apart.

Now imagine this:
You walk into a room—and you don’t shrink.
You speak your truth—and you don’t shake.
You feel love—not because someone finally chose you, but because you finally chose yourself.

With this healing system, you’ll:

  • Finally understand the deep emotional wiring that kept you stuck in pain (and how to break it for good).

  • Learn to recognize real love—and stop settling for versions that drain you.

  • Rewire your nervous system so peace feels safe, not boring or scary.

  • Build a new identity rooted in self-worth, emotional strength, and clear boundaries.

  • Attract healthier love—whether from someone new or someone who now sees you with different eyes.

  • Create relationships that feel grounded, mutual, and real—not built on performance, chasing, or fear.

Is this Really for You?

Addressing Your Concerns

1. “What if my relationship wasn’t abusive—just confusing, inconsistent, or emotionally draining?”

Absolutely still for you.
Toxic doesn’t always look like screaming or violence. Sometimes it’s mixed signals, constant overthinking, and feeling like you’re never quite enough. This book helps you untangle those subtle, painful patterns—so you stop normalizing what’s slowly eroding your self-worth.

2. “I’m the one who left. Does this still apply to me?”

Yes—maybe even more.
Leaving doesn’t mean you’re not hurting. If you walked away from something that felt heavy, chaotic, or impossible to fix—This Isn’t Love will help you understand why it felt that way… and help you trust yourself for finally choosing peace.

3. “What if I’m still in the relationship and I don’t know how to leave—or if I even should?”

Then this book is your mirror, your map, and your lifeline.
When you’re still inside it, everything feels confusing. You second-guess your feelings. You downplay the pain. You hold onto hope while abandoning yourself. This Isn’t Love helps you cut through the emotional fog, see the truth clearly, and reconnect with your gut instinct—the part of you that already knows what’s no longer healthy, even if you’re scared to admit it.

4. “What if I still love them and secretly want them back?”

You can love someone and still need to heal from them.
This book isn’t about shaming your feelings. It helps you look at love with clear eyes—to see what was real, what was survival, and what you truly deserve moving forward. And if reconnection ever happens, it’ll be from a place of strength, not self-sacrifice.

5. “I’ve read other breakup books. How is this any different?”

This isn’t a “feel-good” pep talk—it’s a complete emotional intervention.
You won’t find clichés, vague advice, or fluffy affirmations here. This book digs deep into your nervous system, your childhood wiring, your self-worth—and gives you the tools to rewrite the relationship script you’ve been trapped in for years.

6. “I’m not even sure what’s wrong… I just feel broken.”

Then you’re exactly where you need to be.
This Isn’t Love helps you name the pain you’ve been carrying without words. If you feel lost, confused, or like you’ve abandoned yourself in love one too many times—this is where you come home to yourself.

The Choice is Yours

But Time is Running Out

Path 1:

  • 🚷 Do Nothing

  • Keep pretending you’re fine.

  • Keep justifying their behavior.

  • Keep hoping chaos will somehow turn into love.

  • Keep losing pieces of yourself just to feel wanted.

  • A year from now, you’ll still be hurting—and still calling it love.

Path 2:

  • 📘 Buy This Isn’t Love

  • Finally break the cycle that’s been breaking you.

  • Feel the weight lift as you stop blaming yourself for why it didn’t work.

  • Rebuild your self-worth from the ground up—no more begging, proving, or chasing.

  • Trust your gut again. Set boundaries that hold. Attract love that feels like safety.

  • Look back months from now and hardly recognize the version of you who tolerated so much.

Special Offer 🔥

This Isn't Love

How to Unlearn Chaos, Heal Your Past and Stop Choosing What Hurts

12 Core Lessons + 4 Bonus Guides That Will Change the Way You Love

Forever!

  • Uncover the hidden wounds and subconscious patterns that keep pulling you into toxic relationships

  • Learn how to stop chasing people who make you feel small—and start choosing peace that feels like home

  • Rewire your nervous system so you stop mistaking chaos for chemistry

  • Master emotional regulation tools to stay grounded in moments you used to spiral, lash out, or shut down

  • Rebuild your identity and self-worth from the inside out—without needing anyone else’s validation

  • Spot red flags early and trust your gut before it gets buried under doubt and desperation

  • Let go of the pain that’s been haunting you, and finally feel free from the grip of what could’ve been

  • Create unshakable boundaries and a new standard for what love must feel like going forward

You don’t have to keep pretending this doesn’t hurt.
You don’t have to keep performing for someone who never truly saw you.
And you definitely don’t have to repeat this same story ever again.

Buy This Isn’t Love and turn your rock bottom into the foundation for something real.
This time, you rise.

Every Day You Wait, the Cycle Gets Stronger—and So Does the Pain

Every Day You Stay Stuck… The Damage Goes Deeper.

Right now, you're at a crossroads

and doing nothing is still a choice.
But every day you delay,

you're reinforcing the same pattern

that's been breaking your heart.

Each day you don’t take action is another day where you:

Keep shrinking yourself to be loved

Let your nervous system stay addicted to chaos

Lose more confidence, clarity, and self-respect

Stay emotionally tied to someone who’s already let go

or never truly showed up

You may not feel it yet… but the longer you stay stuck

the harder it becomes to break free.
You stop believing change is even possible.
You get numb.
And eventually,

you forget what it’s like to feel anything but this.

But there’s still time to turn this around.

For just $27, you get instant access to This Isn’t Love—a complete healing system designed to snap you out of survival mode, rebuild your identity, and break the emotional cycle that’s kept you stuck for years.

This is your chance to stop calling pain “love”… before it becomes your permanent reality.

The longer you wait, the more it costs you.
Your peace.

Your power.

Your future.
Don’t lose all three.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. What exactly is this book about?

This Isn’t Love is a raw, step-by-step healing guide for anyone stuck in toxic relationship patterns. It helps you understand why you’ve been choosing pain disguised as love—and how to finally stop. You’ll learn how to heal from emotional chaos, rebuild your identity, and create healthier relationships without repeating the past.

2. Will this help if I’m still in the relationship?

Yes—especially if you feel trapped, confused, or like you’re losing yourself. The book will help you see the situation clearly, reconnect with your gut instinct, and decide whether to stay, leave, or rebuild from a place of truth and strength.

3. What if I still love the person who hurt me?

That’s incredibly common—and this book doesn’t shame you for it. It helps you make sense of those feelings, understand why they’re so strong, and gently guide you toward healing, clarity, and self-protection—even if a part of you still wants them back.

4. Is this just another self-help book full of fluffy advice?

Not even close. This is direct, emotionally charged, and written for people who’ve hit their breaking point. It doesn’t sugarcoat anything—it gives you the truth, tools, and emotional punch you need to break the cycle and actually change.

5. Do I need to be in or recently out of a relationship for this to help me?

No. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in unhealthy dynamics, overgiving, abandoning your needs, or repeating painful patterns—this book is for you. It’s just as powerful for healing past wounds as it is for preventing future ones.

6. How is this different from therapy?

This book doesn’t replace therapy—but it gives you the language, insight, and emotional momentum to either go deeper in therapy or start healing on your own. It’s designed to help you feel understood and empowered, especially if traditional therapy hasn’t reached the root of your relationship pain. A lot cheaper as well.

7. How long does it take to see results?

That depends on your willingness to be honest with yourself and actually do the work. Some people feel a massive shift in the first few chapters. Others feel the impact gradually as they move through the exercises and begin rewiring how they think, feel, and respond. But if you show up for it—it works.

8. Is this book for men or women?

It’s for anyone who’s tired of confusing pain with love. The tools, lessons, and healing process within the book are universal. If you’ve been through relationship chaos, this book will speak to you—no matter your gender.

This Isn’t Love is intended for educational and self-reflective purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional therapy, counseling, or medical treatment. While this book provides powerful tools for emotional healing and personal growth, individual outcomes may vary and are not guaranteed. If you are experiencing severe emotional distress or mental health concerns, please seek help from a licensed mental health professional.